The case of the brutal murder of Noor Muqaddam was still under discussion when a very tragic incident took place with Ayesha Akram in the premises of Minar Pakistan. The extreme rudeness with Tuck Tucker was so well-known on social media that a video of Chung Chi molesting a woman on a rickshaw began circulating on social media. In response, the woman sitting next to him has to take her shoe in her hand. We have two views on the Noor Muqadam murder case. The traditional and liberal classes look at this case through their own lens. The same is true of the rudeness that accompanies Tuck Tucker. People with one point of view blame the whole community in this story. The other view is that Tuck Tucker himself is a co-perpetrator of the story, at the invitation of which the assembly was convened. But there is only one opinion in the Chung Chi rickshaw story and that is that in the Islamic Republic of Pakistan, men have made women's lives miserable.
For years we have heard the saying that this is a society of men. Women are insecure here. She is a victim of male oppression. They are deprived of their legitimate rights. Although I personally agree with most of these, I believe that women have a special place in our society. They are also highly respected. They are also considered deserving of special treatment. If a woman is standing in a long queue at an airport, bank, office, etc., her work is dealt with first out of respect. I have seen well-known politicians, ministers, bureaucrats, businessmen, journalists, etc. If a woman including me goes to his office, respect arises. If a few don't get up from their seats, even a heart like mine feels bad in their heart. There is nothing good about them. If the warden stops you for violating any of the rules of driving on the road, you can issue a license to be a woman and let it be challaned without it. In a traveling bus, etc., men still leave their seats for women and get up. When we go abroad, we have to keep our gender at bay.If you don't get a seat while traveling in bus, metro, train, you have to stand on the same level as men. You have to carry and drag your heavy load, like your sins. Even today, in case of any fight or enmity in the village, if the mother, sister or daughter of the family apologizes to the opposition party, the situation becomes cold.
Despite these general attitudes, I acknowledge that men in Pakistan have made life difficult for girls and women. She can't hold her breath in her nose. She can't go through her street, neighborhood, to the nearest road with satisfaction. They can't wait for their bus wagon at a bus stop. They cannot travel in a bus, wagon, train with satisfaction. They are not safe from the gaze of men, gossip and sometimes intrusion in their offices. Here women are sexually abused, and even little girls. Even the woman lying in the grave is not safe. The fact is that women do not have the freedom and satisfaction to live with dignity, and these so-called men go around seeking a license for all kinds of rudeness and vulgarity.
I often enlist the help of my students to handle academic and research work. If the house of these girls is in my way, I will also give pick and drop. Every time I drop the girls off near their home, or at a taxi or bus stop. I give them a very serious elder advice. But to save them from embarrassment, I say jokingly, "Look, be careful, lest someone tease you." Some time ago I used to drop a girl and when she repeated these sentences daily, one day she started saying. Madam, you also do strange things. There is nothing left of this flirtation. Which you take so seriously. The matter has gone far beyond that. It is normal to come and go two or three times a day. We have been accustomed to it for years. And then I heard the same thing from the mouths of many girls with different words.
After hearing these things, I realized how much these girls, who belong to good families, are suffering. How hard men have made their lives.
After this story, I got involved in research and investigation as usual. In conversations with dozens of students and friends, he inquired about the issues facing them. I was amazed when everyone told me so many stories. It turns out that harassment by men is common in offices. Although there is no shortage of good men, but if a Lifanga gets on a big seat, he proves to be just as rude and shameless. These incidents on the streets, neighborhoods, roads are also the story of the day. The ugly fact also came to light that some male teachers of educational institutions are also in the forefront of this lousy work. Where do women go? Scratch someone's face. Hold someone's collar. Whose tongue? Break someone's hand. Imagine how a forced employee would spend time with such men in her office. After the prayers of the family, the girl who took permission to study in the university, college, told her father and brother
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